blatantescapism:

okay so as someone who fits this stereotype, I’m curious.

How many of us belong to the fiber arts / neurodivergent / cat person trifecta?

(I would ask how many of us are also queer, but this is Tumblr.)

For purposes of this poll, if you make any kind of fiber / yarn / fabric / textile / sewing arts or crafts,

or if you have a strong special interest in them, regardless of ability or desire to create,

you are a Fiber Person.

And if you self-identify as neurodivergent, regardless of official diagnosis status, you are Neurodivergent.

Are you a neurodivergent fiber person who has a cat

Yes! I’m a fiber person, I’m neurodivergent, & I have at least 1 cat

I’m a neurodivergent fiber person. I’d like a cat, but I don’t have one 😿

I’m a fiber person and I’m neurodivergent. I don’t want to have cats.

I’m neurodivergent. I aspire to be a fiber person with cats (yes join us)

I’m neurodivergent. I aspire to be a fiber person, but don’t want a cat.

I’m a fiber person and I have at least 1 cat, but I’m actually neurotypical

I’m a fiber person. I’m neurotypical. I don’t want cats. (???)

I’m not a fiber person, but I love cats and want that fact recorded!

Other / see results

Please reblog for a larger sample size!

infectedwithnyanites:

shadow-banned-the-hedgehog:

Or water fountains, public washrooms, outdoors tables, etc, etc

Notice how removing seating doesnt actually prevent people from sitting it just makes them uncomfortable and makes public spaces more hostile it doesnt actually work at controlling their behavior not till a pig comes along anyways and they’ll harass a homeless person/teen whatever they’re sitting on.

bungoustraypups:

mias-back-from-the-dead:

katy-l-wood:

Have you REALLY lost your scissors if you aren’t walking around making scissor motions with your fingers in an attempt to lure them back out?

spellcasting with somatic compenents

this is a beautiful addition

fairglassbird:

Ads for weight loss should be illegal. Hope this helps.

boldlyshamlessfangirl:

loplopamy:

sadhoc:

i love you comforter i love you pillow i love you sheets i love you mattress i love you plushie i love you dark room i love you bedtime

theambitiouswoman:

BOUNDARIES. Examples for when to say NO and when to say YES.

When to say NO:

1. When you’re already committed to too many tasks and taking on more would be overwhelming.
2. When you need time for yourself to relax, recharge, or pursue your interests.
3. When someone invades your personal space or asks intrusive questions.
4. When someone asks for something that’s beyond your capacity or comfort.
5. When someone tries to involve you in gossip or negative conversations about others.
6. When someone uses guilt, threats, or manipulation to pressure you into doing something.
7. When your generosity is being taken advantage of, and it’s affecting your own needs.
8. When someone asks you to do something that goes against your values or principles.
9. When someone borrows money from you without a clear plan for repayment.
10. When someone consistently disrespects your boundaries or treats you poorly.

When to Say YES:

1. When a close friend genuinely needs your support and you’re capable of providing it.
2. When you’re passionate about a cause and want to contribute your time and skills.
3. When an opportunity arises that aligns with your goals and helps you learn and develop.
4. When you’re invited to gatherings or events that you genuinely enjoy and benefit from.
5. When saying “yes” to social or professional opportunities can help you make valuable connections.
6. When your family members or loved ones need your emotional or practical assistance.
7. When saying “yes” involves trying something new or acquiring useful skills.
8. When taking on a new task or responsibility can push you to grow and overcome obstacles.
9. When saying “yes” to maintaining healthy relationships involves compromise and mutual understanding.
10. When you’re confident that saying “yes” won’t negatively impact your overall well-being or other important obligations.

anxietyproblem:

pdlcomics:

rate your problems!

lilacandladybugs:

“what if im a bad person” yeah? well what if you arent? what if you’re trying your best and you’re growing and you’re kind? what then?

kiindr:

you can be kind and still have strong boundaries in place.

mostly-funnytwittertweets: